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Identity crisis

Writing my blog on my DomCon experience opened my eyes to something I kind of neglected to think about. Or rather I didn’t bother to think about. What now? My interest in BDSM isn’t going to slide into the background. It’s simply part of my multi-faceted reality. I’m a lot of things: author, grateful (andContinue reading “Identity crisis”

2016 Moment: The Importance of Loving Growth in Doses

Many of us exist in a realm of self-mutilation via the words we say to ourselves. We are, without a doubt, hard on ourselves beyond reason—harder than random internet strangers will ever think we are. Case in point, I have three blogs I wanted to get done today, in addition to doing minion’s hair, cooking,Continue reading “2016 Moment: The Importance of Loving Growth in Doses”

Identity crisis

Growing pains

I’m growing as a writer. That’s kind of a given since generally any writer who keeps at their craft grows as a writer, but I’m going through a rough patch that I’m quite content to go through. I just received my book from my editor. Quick detour: There’s this dream that I had once. My bookContinue reading “Growing pains”