#MondayBlogs – Welcome to Gardas

A Call for Aid

Good day, all! So I’m going to do something that I am not entirely comfortable with…I’m going to ask you for help. But before I do so, let me provide you a little context for the sake of transparency if nothing else. I’m currently in school, my last semester to be exact. In order toContinue reading “A Call for Aid”

Identity crisis

Writing my blog on my DomCon experience opened my eyes to something I kind of neglected to think about. Or rather I didn’t bother to think about. What now? My interest in BDSM isn’t going to slide into the background. It’s simply part of my multi-faceted reality. I’m a lot of things: author, grateful (andContinue reading “Identity crisis”

2016 Moment: The Importance of Loving Growth in Doses

Many of us exist in a realm of self-mutilation via the words we say to ourselves. We are, without a doubt, hard on ourselves beyond reason—harder than random internet strangers will ever think we are. Case in point, I have three blogs I wanted to get done today, in addition to doing minion’s hair, cooking,Continue reading “2016 Moment: The Importance of Loving Growth in Doses”

The Write Words

Last night was eye opening in the worst way possible. Not going into it because well, who really wants to be a Debbie Downer on Monday. I mean it’s already Monday. So last night the ugly cry and I met again. It was bad. UC (Ugly Cry) gut checked me so hard my eyes areContinue reading “The Write Words”